My partner is removing operation in 2 weeks as well as she is creation me funny since she thinks it is starting to go wrong. we know it won’t as well as we keep revelation her which though it doesn’t help.
Plan something for her. Depending on the type of surgery–how long she will have to be in the hospital, etc.–you should plan something extravagant that she will love. Come up with something big, a plan that shows you care for her, something that she will like to do. Something birthday or anniversary-worthy would be best. Then let her know about it, and help her plan it with you after you’ve already got the bare bones of the plan laid out and taken care of.
If she has something great to look forward to after the surgery, it will give her a distraction and something happy to think of. She needs a reason to look around the figurative wall she has to climb in 2 weeks.
Comfort isn’t comforting in this situation; action and thoughtfulness is.
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Mr Amazing
July 6th, 2009 at 4:50 pm
Plan something for her. Depending on the type of surgery–how long she will have to be in the hospital, etc.–you should plan something extravagant that she will love. Come up with something big, a plan that shows you care for her, something that she will like to do. Something birthday or anniversary-worthy would be best. Then let her know about it, and help her plan it with you after you’ve already got the bare bones of the plan laid out and taken care of.
If she has something great to look forward to after the surgery, it will give her a distraction and something happy to think of. She needs a reason to look around the figurative wall she has to climb in 2 weeks.
Comfort isn’t comforting in this situation; action and thoughtfulness is.
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